Little did I know this would change everything

What if you could shift your entire reality by just assuming you have what you want? I mean literally close your eyes and play the movie in your head specifically of how you want it to be.

The money. The relationship. The trips. The followers.

Well, that is absolutely possible because that’s exactly what we’ve been doing every day. Let me walk you through it:

Think about the last time you ordered food online. You did what was necessary to get the food: you chose what you wanted to eat, payed for it and then carried on with your life. You didn’t spend the next few minutes spiralling with thoughts like ‘What if the chef hates me?’, ‘What if my food never arrives?’ or ‘What if they just throw it in the bin?’. No! You just assumed that your food is on its way. You assumed the best. And eventually, your food arrived.

Have I convinced you yet?

I could stop here. But I will give you another example.

Think about how we self-sabotage when we assume the worst possible scenario.

Imagine you have an opportunity to attend a job interview with a company you really want to work for. Instead of preparing for it, you focus on the two minor requirements you don’t meet, so you start assuming that you are not good enough, which leads to procrastination and avoidance. You skip researching the company, don’t practise answering possible interview questions, don’t review your skills. By the time the interview arrives, you bomb it. Not because you couldn’t do the job, but because assuming you would fail made you act like you would.

That’s exactly what the Law of Assumption is all about. When you make an assumption, reality has no choice but to unfold in accordance with it. You manifest what you assume because what you assume is who you are.

Your assumptions are the blueprints for your reality, because the Universe creates from this starting point. Once you realise that you are not separate from anything and that you are co-creating your reality with the intelligence of the Universe, it becomes easier to recognise the thought patterns that prevent you from achieving your goals.

‘m telling you from the bottom of my heart that I understand it’s hard to accept blame. We find it hard to take control of our lives because we feel better about ourselves when we blame others for our failures.

However, when it depends solely on you, such as your performance in an interview or an exam, our assumptions become a script for how we will perform. Now, when the situation also depends on others and doesn’t go our way (for example, a breakup, rejection, or being treated poorly), assuming the best also helps us to understand that people are often overwhelmed by their own chaos, and co-creating their own reality in their own world.

We’re all on the same boat!

So, how can you use this knowledge to your advantage?

If you start assuming the worst from now on, your future self will be very angry with you because they will know it could have been different.

So instead of assuming that you won’t get the job, assume that they found you to be a strong candidate and gave you the opportunity to prove yourself. And you are!

Instead of assuming that person hates you because they spoke to you in a cold tone, assume that they’re probably having a hard day or are hungry.

Instead of assuming that you won’t be able to find a solution to that one problem, assume that divine timing is always perfect, and that even if the worst-case scenario happens, things will balance out again. When you start assuming the best, the best will always be happening to you because that’s who you are.

You won’t even notice life’s closed doors because you’re focused only on the open ones.